DEAR HARRIETTE: I have dedicated nearly a decade to the tech industry, working diligently for the same company. Recently, however, I have felt increasingly unfulfilled and dissatisfied in my role.
Despite my apprehensions, I had the courage to write a letter of resignation.
Today, uncertainty clouds my thoughts. What if I struggle to land another position in this competitive field? Will I regret leaving behind the stability and routine I relied on for so long?
Between these concerns and my current life situation — a mortgage to pay and a growing family of four to support — this decision is even more daunting.
I would appreciate any advice you could offer me at this career crossroads.
— Uncertain in my career
DEAR UNCERTAIN IN MY CAREER:Take a break before doing anything.
I recommend doing your research to figure out what you want to do next. Is there another company that interests you in your field? Maybe you could find excitement in your work by putting your talents to work for another company that might value you more.
You should look for a job while you still have your current job. I don’t think you should quit without finding another job first.
DEAR HARRIETTE:I have always been passionate about travel and adventure. After completing my studies in journalism, I decided to pursue a career as a travel blogger.
Over the past five years, I’ve poured my heart into building a successful online presence, sharing personal stories and ideas with readers around the world.
Despite the fulfillment and accomplishments I have found in this field, my parents, who come from a traditional background, have always hoped that I would follow a more conventional career path. They often express concerns about the stability of self-employment and the financial risks it entails.
Recently, at a family gathering, my parents reiterated their concerns, highlighting the uncertainties of my profession. Despite my accomplishments and financial stability through sponsorships and partnerships, I feel the weight of their expectations and a sense of incomprehension.
How can I effectively communicate my passion for travel blogging to my parents? What steps can I take to gain their support while staying true to my career aspirations?
— In search of parental understanding
DEAR SEEKING PARENTAL UNDERSTANDING:Have you been transparent with your parents about your financial situation? Maybe that will give them some comfort.
What parents want most is for their children to be safe. Your parents want that for you, and their work environment is what they know, that’s why they keep pushing you to do something traditional; they don’t understand blogging and its potential to generate income.
Tell them about your business and how lucrative it has become for you. Assure them that you want to be financially independent and that this path will help you get there.
Make sure to let them know that you understand their concerns and that you are smart and strategic, even if you work in a more modern field that they are unfamiliar with.
Harriette Cole is a lifestyle stylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative dedicated to helping people access and make their dreams come true. Questions can be directed to askharriette@harriettecole.com or c/o Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.
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